My perspective - Can't have it both ways
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- Published on Friday, October 4, 2019
By Kate Jackman-Atkinson
Neepawa Banner & Press
Across our communities, we wonder why young people aren鈥檛 getting more involved. Last week, I saw why. On Friday, youth across the world took part in a climate strike. I鈥檒l be honest, I wasn鈥檛 following it very closely, but I was bombarded by examples of adults acting like children. In posts, comments and memes, I saw adults mocking the young participants, telling them they were wasting their time, telling them all the other things they should be doing, accusing them of not being committed to the cause because they own a cell phone or buy new clothes.
It was a pretty depressing weekend on social media.
Youth protesting for change has been a part of growing up in the developed world for most of the last century. Youth have probably been protesting for change even at times when to do so was punishable by death. Those living today protested against wars, they protested against totalitarian regimes by going to war, they marched in the streets for civil rights and gender equality. They skipped school to go to rock concerts. I鈥檓 sure their parents and grandparents thought they were wrong, wasting their time and didn鈥檛 understand the nuances or realities of what they were protesting.
The difference was that back then, a bunch of strangers weren鈥檛 calling you names online.
This isn鈥檛 a column about climate change or what governments should be doing. This is a column about what we need to do if we want our communities to survive.
It seems that when people aren鈥檛 complaining about youth getting involved, they鈥檙e complaining about them being self involved, worried only about social media and the latest iPhone. It can鈥檛 be both ways, we can鈥檛 both chastise youth for not being involved and too involved. When we tell kids to care about the broader community, the world beyond themselves, we can鈥檛 mock them when they do. Our backgrounds, experiences and interests mean we all care about different issues.
I frequently hear concern about the lack of new people getting involved in community organizations and boards. People wonder how our communities鈥� organizations will continue without new blood and energy. We struggle to fill the seats for school boards and municipal councils. It鈥檚 a lucky organization that isn鈥檛 actively looking for a few more helping hands.
If I were a young person looking to get involved in the community, what have I seen over the last week? I have seen repeated again and again the message that I鈥檓 not worthy because I鈥檓 not flawless; that unless I鈥檓 110 per cent in, I鈥檓 not devoted enough to push for something I care about. I鈥檝e been told that I can鈥檛 care about the environment because I have a cell phone, that I can鈥檛 want to clean up waterways because I haven鈥檛 cleaned the house. How many of us adults are held to these standards? We鈥檝e shown youth that people won鈥檛 engage on issues, they鈥檒l mock them for being young and naive and passionate. Who would want to step up and get involved?
I鈥檓 not saying that youth should make all the decisions or that we shouldn鈥檛 help educate them about the things they don鈥檛 know or understand, but we should be engaging in ideas, education and sharing information between generations on a personal basis, not anonymously mocking online. Today鈥檚 youth will spend much longer living with our decisions and at least recognizing that would be a good start.
We live in a free society and can鈥檛 tell others what they should care about. Would we rather our youth cared only about the latest outfit, tech gadget or celebrity du jour? I wouldn鈥檛.
